Valentine’s Day for My Single Girls: The Ultimate Vibe Check

This year, Valentine’s Day lands on a Friday and it kicks off a long weekend—so if you have the means, take that trip! Solo getaways or a girls’ weekend are always a good idea. But if you’re staying in town, don’t worry, I’ve got you covered. Let’s make this Valentine’s a total vibe!

Friday: Galentine’s & Good Vibes

Valentine’s falling on a Friday means one thing: it’s the perfect pregame for the weekend. Plan a Galentine’s celebration with your girls—dinner, dancing, or a cozy night in with charcuterie and movies. If you don’t drink, make it a mocktail night with cute glasses and aesthetic drinks.

Pro tip: Sign up for a midday workout class with your friends. It’s the best way to get those feel-good endorphins flowing before the weekend starts.

If you love fresh flowers, grab them on Thursday, so you wake up to them on Friday morning. Nothing says romance (even if it’s just for yourself) like fresh blooms on your nightstand.

Saturday: Flowers, Fun, & Self-Love

If a night out isn’t your vibe, turn Saturday into a cozy self-care day:
✔️ Bake cupcakes, cookies, or a heart-shaped pizza.
✔️ Watch your favorite rom-com or binge a feel-good series.
✔️ Try a DIY spa night—face masks, body scrubs, and all the skincare love.
✔️ Write a love letter to yourself. Seriously, hype yourself up like you would a best friend.

Sunday: Reset & Recharge

Use Sunday as a reset day—whether that means journaling, deep cleaning your space, or meal prepping for the week ahead. Take yourself out for a cute solo brunch, buy that thing you’ve been eyeing, or go for a long walk while listening to your favorite playlist or podcast.

Journaling Prompts for Self-Love & Reflection

Take a moment to reflect and celebrate yourself with these journaling prompts:

• What are three things I love about myself?

• How have I grown in the past year, and what am I proud of?

• What does my ideal self-care routine look like?

• What kind of energy do I want to attract into my life?

• How can I show myself more love every day?

Other Ideas to Make It a Whole Vibe:

💌 Book a professional massage or at-home facial.
💌 Try a new hobby or craft—painting, knitting, or making jewelry.
💌 Have a themed dress-up night (think: pink & red outfits or full glam for fun).
💌 Manifest your dream love life with a vision board or scripting journal session.
💌 Host a game night with your besties and make it a pajama party.

At the end of the day, Valentine’s is all about love, and that includes self-love. So, whether you’re celebrating solo or with friends, make it a day to enjoy, reflect, and treat yourself the way you deserve. 💖

What are you doing for Valentine’s this year? Drop your plans in the comments! 👇